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Udvaganathar (Kalyanasundareswarar) Temple, Tirumananjeri

Where Shiva married Parvati, by the temple’s katha; the young and unmarried come in thousands to pray for a match. Appar and Sambandar sang it.

Built: Brick shrine of the Tevaram age, rebuilt in stone under Parantaka I; gifts of Sembiyan MahadeviWhere: Tamil Nadu (Mayiladuthurai district)Deity: Bhagwan Shiva as Udvaganathar (Kalyanasundareswarar); Devi as Kokilambal11.11° N, 79.57° E
Photo: Ssriram mt · CC BY-SA 4.0

01The wedding village

Udvaha is marriage, and manam in Tamil the same; Tirumananjeri is the village of the wedding. The temple’s katha says Parvati, born on earth as the daughter of Bharata Maharshi, did tapas for Shiva, and he came and married her here, with Bhagwan Vishnu giving the bride away. The Lord stands in his wedding form as Kalyanasundareswarar, the Devi beside him. Those who wish to marry come with two garlands, offer one and wear one home, and return as a couple, with the garland, to give thanks. Weekends and auspicious days bring crowds from all over the south.

02From brick to stone

Appar and Sambandar sang Tirumananjeri when the shrine was still of brick. It was rebuilt in stone in the early tenth century: two inscriptions of the fourth regnal year of Parantaka I survive, with three more from the reign of Rajaraja I, which record gifts by Sembiyan Mahadevi, mother of Uttama Chola. A short walk away is Edirkolpadi, where the bridegroom was received by the bride’s people, itself a separate Tevaram shrine.

Visiting

About 6 km from Kuthalam and 30 km from Kumbakonam. Go early on weekends; the queue for the marriage archana is long.